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hitting and lying

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kelly s
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« on: August 31, 2010, 08:29:51 pm »

Owen is hitting me.  Any suggestions for dealing with it?

And he lies too.  Like, I ask him what he said and he says, "I didn't say anything".  Is this abnormal?

Is he testing the boundaries?
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Queen Goddess of the Universe
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« Reply #1 on: August 31, 2010, 08:46:49 pm »

I used a short simple phrase whenever Bry hit.

Such as:
"Hands are for helping not for hurting"
"I don't like that, stop"
"No Hitting"
"Hitting Hurts, we don't hurt"

Lying. I do not know.  Sad Sorry
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« Reply #2 on: August 31, 2010, 09:43:42 pm »

At this stage, lying is just a fantasy thing.  I find that if I can make it playful with Sofi, she will tell me the truth.  I can say, "Did you wish you hadn't said anything, so you told me you didn't?" and she will respond most of the time.

Hitting, in YAYCFT I think, she talks about warming the hands if they hit.  That in a classroom, they will wrap a silk around the hand, or hold it in your hands to warm it.  I know that it is summer time, so that might not work, but the intention might.  Approaching with love and just holding the hands.

Good luck!
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